How do cope with being cheated on?

So I've been seeing this guy for a while, and things seemed to being going great. But then tonight I talked to his ex and she admitted that they were still seeing each other. I heard the rumors before, but I denied them until tonight when I talked to her. I just don't understand because I put so much heart into this guy and he completely crushed me.How do cope with being cheated on?
Usually when a guy cheats, he cheats because he doesn't want to lose those around him. In your case, mostly likely, he still had feelings for his ex.. but also new feelings that arose with you. It can be tough for a guy to decide whether to listen to those feelings that's been established.. or to go for the thrill of starting new ones. Be mature about it and don't go around trying to get revenge. No one is perfect and people make mistakes and wrong decisions throughout their lives. Is this his first time cheating? If your feelings for him are still strong and still have thoughts of forgiving him, tell him how you feel and see if he's worth giving another chance to. If not, just think that she stepped into a big pile of ****. Wash it off and go find those who are actually worth it. :)How do cope with being cheated on?
Well it's important to remind yourself that an UNMARRIED man can date, make out with, sleep or have sex with ANY WOMAN HE WANTS.





.... and it can't be called ';cheating'.





MacDonald's doesn't get to get MAD or call me a ';cheater'; for also eating at Burger King. Nor is a man expected to TELL MacDonald's that he also eats at Burger King.





That would be --%26gt;%26gt; INSANE.





A faithful man is not a woman's ';automatic right';. Just because you WANT a man to be faithful doesn't mean he is ';required'; to be that way.





MacDonald's really HATES it that people eat at Burger King.


But do they have the right to COMPLAIN about it???





So until you make him an offer he can't refuse - or pay him handsomely for a contract - then I'm afraid there is nothing you can do about it.





Besides..... you said you were only ';seeing this guy';. And dating is the period of time where he is SINGLE and he can see whoever he wants.





But most importantly, you may want to remind yourself that YOUR THOUGHTS DON'T DICTATE A MAN'S ACTIONS. Just because you ';think'; a man should (or shouldn't) do something.... doesn't mean he's a jerk for doing the opposite.





Men don't owe women personal happiness.


But we DO owe OURSELVES personal happiness.





Cheers.
Baby you deserve the best so ditch the loser and find someone who is worth your time and effort, do it for yourself. I like the fact that you admitted it, that is the first step to healing. You sound like a great girl and he just doesn't deserve you. It hurts, I know but with time, it will get better..just give yourself time to heal by hanging out with your friends and keeping yourself busy with other things, reading a good book, hiking, taking walks, going to the movies, shopping... Be happy, you deserve that..***Hugs***
Take sometime to do something thats all about you. Dont take him back. Hard as it might be the guy violated your trust and worst yet you had to hear it from others rather than the man himself. Understand it will take some time to get over him , but as cliche' as it sounds there are plenty of decent men out there that will treat u w the respect u deserve and not cheat.
First off, why are you talking to his ex? Second, why should you believe her? She could be lying to get you away from him. Rumors are rumors. However, because you can't trust him, and would prefer to listen to rumors, dump him. You can't have a relationship without trust.
ok this boy did not value your feelings and how much this would hurt you. everyone deserves someone who genuinely values them and this guy was just not it for you. if he didn't do it now, he was bound to do it later because he doesn't respect your feelings. he doesn't seem concerned about how his actions would affect you. No one deserves to feel worthless.


hope i helped


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realize you are better than him and karma will come back to get him. Just keep your head up high, learn from the situation, and find someone who will treat you with respect
Never date a guy that has not been away from ';Long Term'; ex for at least 1-2 years. You were just being used, for him to try to get over her. Back off, and move on before he hurts you any more.
I think it would feel good to get it off your chest. Talk about it with some good friends who will get you through it and give you some good perspective. And you should definitely talk to the guy.
omg i went threw the same thing (but they only had sex in my situation)





but honestly talk to him about see where his head is about it see if he lies or apologize or if your REALLY hurt tell him you need a break this will help you get your head together
There is only one sure-fire way: to move on to the next guy. It will take your mind and heart off the old one forever.





:)
Break up with his sorry A $ $ and find someone else.


Dating can be fun again, if you open up your heart to something new.





I know it hurts but life is cruel,..Good Luck mommy
revenge always makes you feel better. but...i didn't give you that advice...that would be bad advice....that makes you feel good...haha.
im so sorry, I feel crushed and betrayed by my ex GF too. If I was there I would give you a hug cause I could sure use one.
revenge, or alternatively, you could join me for some dota, that's where 'it's at'
Have a bunch of unprotective butt sex
I get drunk and eat lots of chocolate....