Im going to die at 16 and cant cope?

Im a 16 year old scottish guy, and six days ago I went to the doctors because I was getting pretty bad headaches. It came to light then that I had a cancerous brain tumour that is incurable. I now know that I have under four months left to live.





The reason I'm posting this on here is because I don't know how to cope anymore. I just feel so cheated. With nothing but four final months of dying ahead of me, I feel like I might as well die now.





Can anybody think of anything to help me cope?Im going to die at 16 and cant cope?
I'm so very sorry, I wish I could give you more words to help change the way you are feeling now, but they all sound so insignificant. All I know is you have to treasure each special moment you have left in this world. Write a list of all you have to be thankful for, spend time with all those people who you love. Try to do some things you've always wanted to do. Take lots of photographs, and write notes to everybody you care about telling them your favourite memories of your times spent together - this is your opportunity to give them something special they can hold on to forever.





If you can, you should request some counselling if you feel it would help. There are many people out there who can offer advice, accept as much of it as you can. Realise there is much more to this world than we could ever possibly know about down here on earth. That may not make much sense now, but it will in time. Your energy can never be destroyed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. :-)Im going to die at 16 and cant cope?
Accept it, there is no point in living in denial. Enjoy your time left with Family and friends. Focus on the things that give you pleasure, even the little things. Donate your organs, it just might help another live longer because of you. Express your self openly towards loved ones. Give of your self, the joy you help bring unto others will not be forgotten and you will be regarded as strong in the face of adversity, others will strive to be like you down the road. You could spend the remainder of your time feeling sorry for your self or you could enjoy it. The choice is yours. If you choose to live in a way that has affected others such that you made their lives a little easier because you have lived, that is to have lived and succeeded!
you still have 4 months ahead of you have as much fun as possible don't be afraid to die cause I am not, the body may leave but you will still be able to connect with all loved ones just in a different way.you won't believe all the good stuff that is waiting for you so hold your head up high and be proud of what you accomplished and all the lives you touched here and over there. I know we never met but i am glad we got to share a quick note today
Sorry about your news.


Make a list of the things you would like to have done and see if there are any you could still do.


See if there are any friends that you have lost contact with and would like to at least say goodbye to and do it.


If the sun shines and you can still go outside go and see what there is to enjoy, the colours of the leaves, the birds eating berries and seeds, people taking their dogs for a walk, the sun on your face and the breeze in your hair.


Find someone to talk to who will let you express your anger, fear, sorrow ... without judging you. Is there a counsellor type person at your cancer unit? If not try this number


0808 808 00 00


which is macmillans cancer backup helpline so they will understand something of what you are feeling and may be able to find someone local to support you.


There isn't an easy way to get through this time, I hope that from somewhere you find the strength to do it well and leave your family and friends with happy memories of you.
I know this may sound a bit preachy and I'm by no means trying to force a religion onto you, but when I think of something that helps me deal with the thought of leaving my loved ones, I think of God.





Have you ever heard of Ryan White? If not, I think you'll find his story to be quite inspirational. Just get as close to your family and friends as humanly possible and fight! Fight for your life!- try anything and everything to hang in there! I'll be praying for you!





Feel free to contact me any way you see fit if you're interested in talking!
take your computer and all your valuables get all the pics and send to family





go burn your computer








and go live with your family for 4 months





=]








and for me





if i wanted to die i would want to die the room i was BORN in
do things you want. Maybe read a few books you've always wanted to read. go enjoy the sun outside. do things you feel you want. spend some time watching the clouds and the sky with friends or family. look at the stars, laugh, make it the best you can...
I may be able to help, you should enable your email, so people can give you advise without being judge by the public.





Here's a my email,





goods1838@yahoo.co.uk





I have some free information which you maybe interested in.
do everything u can to fight it. take the treatments if u think it will help. other than that just make them the best months. do anything and everything u've always wanted to do...im so sorry. i wish u the best
This is serious matter. I think you should go see a counsellor and talk about this and not to random strangers on the internet.





talk to a professional
Thank God you lived that long. My nephew passed away this year after his battle with cancer. He was only 8. Make these the best four months that you can.
no time sit around on the computer. you need to go out into the world and make this the best 4 months of your life.
I'm very sorry to hear this. all I can offer is moral support. Email me if you like.
add me on my space ! please


myspace/martiwerewolf
Do you have Yahoo Messenger or anything? i wouldn't mind being there (online wise) for comfort...





';hug';
if this is true..check out my question.


then e mail me. heymichellyy@hotmail.com


would wanna talk.
oh my gosh.. for real? just live life as best as u can... try to find treatments..anythin that will help u live longer...and if anything happens god forbidd R.I.P.


be very close to ur friends and mostly ur family
I don't think i can add anything to the comments above regarding making the most of what time you have left.





I think you are very brave to come on here and tell us.





Since this is like last ditch stand can I suggest you take 1500 ug (that's micrograms but it won't print) of Folic acid per day.





This is not a scam.





Research at Ohio University + Cambridge University in England shows that Folic acid (vitamin B9) is used by the body to repair DNA.





Their tests showed 1000ug per day STOPPED cervical cancer in 90% of their patients.


The U S Pharmaceutical Industry was so worried that they pulled plug on publication. Folic acid is cheaply available, it threatened their profit margins.





I don't know if it wud work on brain tumour but don't see why not.


It boosts body's own DNA repair mechanism.





You have nothing to lose. Try it. 1500ug per day.





You need to take Vitamins B6 + B12 as well because they are catylsts to B9.





Worth a try. Good Luck.