Friday, August 20, 2010

Cheating question?

so i just told my boyfriend yesterday that i cheated on him once (this was a year ago by the way) and he took it well but of course was mad and suprised. i know for a fact it wont happen again and i love him dearly. how can i help him cope with this....i want to help himCheating question?
Congratulations on your honesty in telling him about it a year later, too bad it's too little too late. If you love him dearly, you would have never betrayed him like that. You can't help him to cope with it, he needs to decide if he will be able to believe you and truly forgive and forget or IF he can ever trust you again. Sorry but I think you made your feelings for him quite clear when you cheated on him a year ago when you cheated on him.Cheating question?
This is something he has to deal with on his own. That is a hard thing to find out. Not to mention the fact you didn't tell him for a year.





He may find it very difficult to trust you again so if he questions you a lot about where you are going or who you are talking to , etc. you will have to be patient until he can regain the trust he once had in you.





Just don't give him any reasons to believe you might do it again. That is the only way to help him.
Well, that was not so cool, but hey it was a long time ago and i know you dont want to hurt him again. I think you should go out more ofte, show him you care for him and you are there for him ..Try to make him forget all that, by showing him that he can trust you. Just make sure you spend time with him, always talk to him so he can forget all that..Good luck!
It might be worth telling him that it's OK for him to cheat on you just once to even out the score: if he does this, it should help him forget about your straying and (hopefully) you 2 can patch things up again afterwards.
First, get things straight. Love does not equate to cheating!! If, you really loved this guy, you would have stayed true to only him. Sorry, but now you have fallen into another category of women we guys refer to as........ Let's just say it rhymes with Go.
just keep telling him you love him %26amp; will never do it again and he acutually does mean alot .
well first of all make sure it never happens again and stay faithful to him...that should help :) best of luck
cheating is only ok on tests...
spend more time with him, loveeeee him
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