How to get over my 48 yr old BF, cheating on me with a 22 yr old.and tried to get her to lie..how to cope?

he even sent several texts telling me to stop him before he left..the next am he boasted about how young she was (I'm 52)...and he would just see her for casual sex..I stayed away..but everyday he kept sending msgs saying it wasn't true and he lied..they just went to dinner %26amp; movie...I found her cell #..called and she admitted immediately they had ';lusty sex';..but he ';left her unsatisfied'; (she's 22) and is admittidley a swinger and admitted NO condom was used! After he swore on his Dads life %26amp; Daughters numerous times that he NEVER touched her...(he's 48)....I told him of our conversation...he said @#^$ you and hung up! She said he begged her to not tell me..to lie to me. She didn't. He keeps persuing her shae said to have ';makeup'; sex because of his ';failure'; the first time....He blames me..said I made him single..said if I would have stopped him..it may have not happened...this is NOT his 1st deceptive affair..there have been many in 6 years. I let him know..it hurts more to know he was going to willingly pass on any STD he may have contracted on to me..(had she not told the truth)..then the actual first time he told me he slept with her! I don't believe he ever really loved me to do this again and again..and this is the second time he was going to possibly pass on any STD/HIV he may have contracted.....I'am crushed....what is wrong with him..?How to get over my 48 yr old BF, cheating on me with a 22 yr old.and tried to get her to lie..how to cope?
You are hurt, he has cheated. You should become a Cougar. Do this on your terms. On what you are ready to do. Just dating, date out of town. Make sure you can take care of yourself, buy your own dinner, drinks. Go there, have fun for yourself. When you want to allow someone to buy you a drink, go for it! But on your terms. Be good to yourself, you need this. By doing so this may attract your man back to you. And if it doesn't you have reached out and made new friends. Protect yourself, go get checked out at the doctor, get treated. And if it does work out that you get back together, make it on your terms. Good luck! You deserve better!How to get over my 48 yr old BF, cheating on me with a 22 yr old.and tried to get her to lie..how to cope?
Leave him!!! He won't change! You deserve better. It's almost every man's fantasy to have a younger girl~ it's only going to be lie after lie.
What is wrong with him? He is a cheater that's what!!! This is a clear cut case of once a cheater always a cheater. Here's a question for you. What the hell is wrong with you? You let this guy cheat on you tons of times and your still talking to him! I know your 52 but he is by no means the only fish in the see. My boy Ralph here at work is the same age and he is swimming in the ladies and he is not overly attractive. You need to cut off all ties. Why are you letting him do this to you? Are a glutin for punishment? Stop making the rest of us women look bad take hold of your self respect and never talk to him again! GEEEZ!

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