I left my fiance 1 1/2 years ago after she cheated. We have a 3 year old daughter together. How do I cope?

with the fact that one day she will have a stepfather.





The thought just makes me cringe! She had an affair and I had no choice but to leave her. We share custody. But eventually she will find someone else and get married. Is anyone currently in this situation or have been? What should I expect?





28 year old male from the East Coast.I left my fiance 1 1/2 years ago after she cheated. We have a 3 year old daughter together. How do I cope?
IF you have remained in her life as you have done, you ARE still her father, %26amp; ALWAYS w/be her father. Her love for you w/NEVER chg. regardless of who is in her life. You share custody, so are %26amp; WILL remain a BIG part of her life. Don't start worrying about something that has not happened yet. She w/ALWAYS be your little girl regardless of all the other things that happen over the yrs. %26amp; you w/ALWAYS be ';her dad';. You too are still young, %26amp; no doubt w/marry at some point in time. This w/give her a ';step mother';, but you'll see how it w/NOT take the place of her mother. The SAME WILL apply w/you. If you can think of it in that way...best to you...:)I left my fiance 1 1/2 years ago after she cheated. We have a 3 year old daughter together. How do I cope?
The only thing you can control is your life and the time you spend with her. The best thing you can do is support your daughter emotionally if she gets a step father. I have seen many children of divorced parents and one of the hardest things is adjusting to changes if mom and dad remarry, live with other people, or have more children, around the same time. If the changes are happening with both parents at once it's difficult for the children to have stability. Spend time with your daughter and if she's upset let her know you will always listen to her even if you have a girlfriend.
First off let me say, I'm sorry about what she did. The good thing is honestly she did it early enough where you are only 28 years old and have life to live yet. Its better she did it now than if you had been with her for 20 years. Coping is hard coming from experience you should work on yourself, and your child. Those are the people that matter now. Sit down and express yourself on paper and what you value in a relationship and dont give up on trying to find someone who shares those same qualities and ambitions---honesty and loyalty should be a few. Hope this helps- also picking up a new hobby can help you take your mind off the past and begin a new life.
Not only that, think about all those otherdicks she sucks on. Think of all the man juice she guzzles like a muslim during ramadan. If she had as manydicks sticking out of her as she has had stuck in her, she would look like a porcupine.
You should expect to have to grow up.





Someday you may remarry and your daughter will have a step-mother.





Get over it.
I would cope by finding yourself someone new and move on with your life..all you can do is be the best parent you can be...Its never an easy situation..but sadly it happens all the time