Friday, August 20, 2010

My boyfriend was caught lying and cheating but denies it and acts as if he never cared. What to do?

My boyfriend was caught lying and cheating but denies it and acts as if he never cared. What to do?


My boyfriend of 6 years walked out on me and our 4week old son and 2 year old daughter last week. I asked him why and he said he needing some time apart because I was nagging to much. Well I thought he was staying with a Friend but it turns out he was staying with another woman he worked with. When I caught him he response was all lies. He could not get them straight. He said nothing was going on and Im upset for noting claiming he fell asleep on her couch waiting on a friend. So I said if nothing is going on then let me call her and he says no b/c that would be disrespectful to her. (slap in the face) Then he says it does not matter b/c were not together. I say you broke up with me a week ago and your already sleeping with someone else. he says well I was never coming back to you. I cant under stand why he wont admit the entire truth and how he could be so heartless and pretend he never cared about me at all. He has my car and claims he will be by to see his kids. The same kids he walked out on. He cares more about her finding out the truth then he cares about me. How do I even begin to cope and Heal. How do I not care the way he does not? Im a complete mess. I wrecking my brain tryna heal my heart. If he admitted the truth and was sorry, would i feel better?? Im hurt but No I don't want him back at all!!!My boyfriend was caught lying and cheating but denies it and acts as if he never cared. What to do?
Well this is a bit stereotypical...Women loving and men being complete assholes.Well healing is going to take time,what you need to do is focus on the little ones for now. The solution to your problems will come in time.Try to let this all sink in and remember where you are in life.Are you a strong woman? Are you a strong mother? Reassure yourself. There are many single mothers in the world that have come out fine,you could be sure that you'll make it out also.Don't panic nor cry around the children,enjoy life without him.((You're probably better off))My boyfriend was caught lying and cheating but denies it and acts as if he never cared. What to do?
The pain will get better. I know its hard but as a mother your children have to come first. They have to see their father and thing between have to be amicable in front of them.





But behind closed doors... If it was me I'd castrate him...





Be gland you didn't marry the good for nothing son of a B17CH!
sweetheart, your bf is a $*^%26amp;% and u dont deserve him..............%26lt;3
He's a dipshi*. Leave him alone and let him screw around with the other woman if thats what he wants. You cant make a man stay with you sweetie I'm sorry, but just make sure that he takes care of your children. He'll come to his sense sooner or later, and by the time that happens it's gonna be too late. He just wants sex, and as soon as he gets the sex he'll come runnin back, and that's when you say nope I dont want you.
Well that's good to hear. You are not going back to him.





He's obviously not hearing you properly. He's c**t-struck or something. He's irresponsible, arrogant, ignorant and an ***. Who cares anymore. You're better than him. You're a better person. Move on with your kids. The kids would be better off without him also. He can't be a good role model for them. So just move on.





It'll take some time, you've had a lot of history, but it'll be worth it in the end. Stuff him. He's a definite ***.
He won't tell the truth because he is a pig.
He is not good enough for you. And this upsets me more because you have kids. He is being very inappropiate about this. its pathetic of him. Im so sorry for you and your kids
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