NO he is NOT cheating on me.. we have a wonderful relationship otherwise, he just does not have the urge. How do I deal with this? I love him very much he is the best boyfriend I have ever had and I don't want to break up with him.How do i cope with my boyfriends low sex drive?
Talk to him. Make sure he feels safe and free to express himself, and your more liekly to get an honest answer. There may be things he wants to explore, but he's not sure you'd be receptive to them.
He may have a low interest in sex than you do, or maye he's pleasuring himself and that draining his drive. You need to find out if this is a concern for you. If he has a lower drive, you can do other things intimately that can fill that need and if he wants you to be happy I'm sure he'll oblige. If he's drive seems abnoramy low it could be a undiagnosed medical condition, he may want to talk to a doctor. Diabetes and other conditions can lower sex drive, or even cause impotency
If he's pleasuring himself, ask what he gets from that he's not getting from you. More likely he has fantasies he doesn't feel comfortable revealing. He may also fancy the thought of someone new, but you can workaround that by doing roleplaying or dressing up to keep things interesting.How do i cope with my boyfriends low sex drive?
I agree. Talk to him and be supportive, but ask for what you want. Here's a few suggestions of some herbs that might help.
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Some of them can naturally increase libido.
Maybe you should try telling him how you feel about it first. Then maybe getting him some vitamins or something to boost his sex drive. If you love him, please don't cheat on him.
If need be, have him go to the doctor.
You either try dress up games or tie up games that should do the job.
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