Theres messages on there of her the same day he came over mine and we had sex.he speaks to her like he does me.Im not sure how he could do this,pictures of them kissing,he tried to deney it.I asked him so many times are you seeing someody else and he denied it,he musnt have much respect for her if hes been telling me he loves me,and wants to have sex with me so bad.What shall i do im devastated.we are both 25.
I dont understand tho why hes kept me hanging on,and saying to me if he was with anybody it would be me.Does he not care about me,?now hes ignoring me,why when hes been seeing her as he still been filling my head with crap,i dont understand,i love him and now thats it,he has her ,why not me tho,he told me i knew him better than anybody else,the other day when i was getting out of hes car he said you not leaving until you kiss me,he proably kissed her the earlier that evening,i dont know how il manage now.i have just gone on hes facebook page and hes posted ';god im so bored today';why wont he text me back,do i not deserve answers?an apology,i seriously cant cope,i thought he cared about me,why am i not good enough,am i not pretty enough,funny enough,theres just no point to my life now.Im devasted hes cheat on me,i cant cope now,what shall i do?
First you are good enough! Its not you its him.
I am 25 too and recently gone through the same thing.
It's going to be hard but stop going on his facebook page ( I did the same as you) He called me his best friend and that I was the closest person to him in his life. I could not understand either how he could tell me this. In the end I just took it that he told me this to not make it hurt as much - no one can say these kind of things to you and then do that to you.
Call your friends make yourself busy and forget about him, if he texts you, answer, but don't text, call, e-mail or contact him in anyway until he gets in touch with you.
Also HE has lied to you, cheated on you and hurt you and you deserve better than to have a boyfriend treat you like this.
I know it sounds hard to just say its over - I really do understand, it's taken me three months to feel better about myself and not think that it was me that was not good enough for him, but I am good enough for someone else. It's been hard but I have never felt better about myself than I do right now.
Three months on and me and my ex are now friends. Not the best of friends but we go out and have lunch and talk - it's worked out to be the best thing that could have happened to us.
You really are not to blame, I hope this is of some help to you.
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