How do I deal with my girlfriend cheating on me?

My girlfriend cheated on me and I am devestated. We have been together for 2 years and never even seem to fight. I don't know what I am supposed to do. How do I cope with this devestation?How do I deal with my girlfriend cheating on me?
Im sorry to hear this and i know what your going through, i think we've all been there at one point in our lives and its the worse pain ever!





You have to ask yourself what do you want now, what was her reason for doing it?


Was there something going wrong in the relationship for her to go else where?


More importantly will she do it again?





If its the first time this has happened and she is truly sorry, if you can forgive her in time and want to work things out then maybe its worth a go?


When someone cheats in a relationship the trust is broken and the other person finds it so hard to trust again, this is where relationships break down.





If you decide you cant forgive her cheating then break all ties with her and move on, its very hard, keep yourself busy at work and doing things with friends but you will get over this, theres no magic potion which you can take and it makes it all better im afraid, we've all been through it and survived, time is a healer and life goes on.





Whatever you decide good luck :-)How do I deal with my girlfriend cheating on me?
I would say dump her now even though you will continue to suffer for the next 2 weeks or so. It is my experience that when I was cheated on if I chose to stay with that person I would end up breaking up with them anyway because I couldn't trust them again. Being cheated on is extremely difficult to overcome. Those relationships that I did try to work out are even more painful for me to look back on now because I continued to be hurt even though we stayed together. I wish I had just dumped them right away instead of dragging out my pain even longer. After those relationships I have learned to dump them right away %26amp; those are much easier to get over because I feel a greater respect for myself. Don't allow yourself to be someone else's door mat. Always remember my new motto, ';Never make someone else your priority when to them you are just an option.'; Go out there and find a nice girl who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.





P.S....you have to keep yourself occupied over the next 2 weeks to a month or you will find it very difficult to keep yourself from calling or seeing her. Find a group of friends/family that will support your decision.
Seems like girls cheat as much as boys do lately. I dunno how to let you cope with it. I had a cheating boyfriend, mind you, he is still my boyfriend -- yes I might be a fool for being with him until today but I couldn't let go. I gave him a second chance.





However, if she wants you back, you can try to give her a second chance, of course that is utterly your choice and decision. For me, I am glad I gave him a second chance, though he also lied and continue cheating after-wards, so I gave a lot of chances, but now he realized how stupid he is, and he is proving to me he is better. But still, you won't be able to trust completely, you would be full-doubt and all of that.








So you whether move on ... and time will heal it all, or give the second chance.
My girlfriend of 6 months has cheated on me four times, twice recently and twice a 2 months in, it tears u apart as Im sure u know. I stayed in the relationship but its just not working, she trys her hardest and is fairly loving.





But the past will always be there, about what they have done.





Dont cheat on her though otherwise your just as bad, I would say break up but I couldnt take that advise.





You need to move on but u know whether it can work or not.





Best of Luck





Cam
well first of dump her, once a cheater always a cheater and once its happened the trust has gone. to help deal with this remember it wasn't your fault, she's the one that ended the relationship for being unfaithful. try talking to some one about it, a Professional, family, friend, get it of your chest, that helps you get over it and put every thing into perspective.


gd lk :) xoxo
I would not be able to deal with it. I would have to break it off... In order to forgive, you have to be able to put your past behind you and that would be too much of a breach of trust. Good Luck man. Michelle
First of all dump her *** if you haven't yet. Cheaters never change. It is of little comfort now, but at least you found out relatively soon. At least you didn't marry her.


Go find a new woman. The sooner, the better.
If your doing everything right to be a good boyfriend then ';cut'; her. If you are the best boyfriend you can be to her and she wants someone or something else then you just need to cut her loose.
there r two options





1. u can cheat on her. tit for tat.





or





2. talk to her about it and get it over with. if u want, u can break up. it will be reasonable enough.
She destroyed your honor, your honor as a man. Women are properties so when they don't know their place, you need to do what masters do - kill.
Break up with her. Sorry to say it, but once a cheater always a cheater. Your trust has been violated. Dump her now. Good luck my friend.
first off all dump her no use in talking to her since she will try to hide the story and second take some time off from relationships that will help the most
Break up with her!
Burn that b**ch's house down!
do the same to her,


squits.
two words dump her
u can give her my number