How am I meant to cope knowing my husband resents me and our kids?

My husband is in hospital because he has an eating disorder, he's anorexic. He's blaming me and our kids for the lack of control in his life which isn't fair because he wanted to have kids and get married. I know I made his anorexia worse by him finding out I had cheated on him. In the space of about two weeks until he came home again he eat twice because he nearly fainted. I feel terrible and I don't feel like I can cope.


When I cheated I was in a bad place. I had postnatal depression and I was grieving because I lost one of my twins to cancer. It was almost 11 months ago now and I did want to tell him sooner but I was scared and I was being blackmailed but his friend who was the one I cheated on him with.How am I meant to cope knowing my husband resents me and our kids?
Honestly, that's a hard one. You both have some problems that you need resolved by counseling or something, because your marriage will not get better anytime soon with you each blaming each other for your problems.How am I meant to cope knowing my husband resents me and our kids?
You'd better go see a ';head shrinker';! You are messed up big-time. Didn't anyone ever tell you not to cheat on your husband? You are probably the main cause of your problems!


We lost a son to cancer at age 3, and a grandson to SIDS at3 weeks, but my wife didn't run off with the first guy who came along!


Grow up and confront your problems! Go see a Doctor who can help you!
i hope he doesn't' say that garbage in front of the children. kids have enough in life to deal with than a self centred father.the kids are only the way you both made them. you on the other hand are a different matter get both your lives sorted out and boot that so-called friend in the balls
There is no acceptable excuse for cheating. None.





Why didnt you turn to your husband? It is always the other person that kisses first isn't it?





Couldn't you have said, ';what are you doing? Stop!'; but you didn't.





Now you have to take charge and clean up the mess. Beg him for forgiveness. Apologize everyday. go out of your way to make him feel attractive and special.