Monday, August 9, 2010

For men AND women - a few questions about cheating?

ok i'm not saying it's just men that cheat, because i'm not dumb. i know women cheat too. men seem to do it more though.


1. Is there anyone out there who has HONESTLY never cheated on their wife/ girlfriend/ significant other?


2. Those people out there that think messing around isn't cheating if you don't fall in love - HOW DO YOU JUSTIFY THAT?


3. How have you coped with being cheated on?


4. Do you agree with the phrase ';once a cheater, always a cheater';?





BTW - not asking for advice on how to cope here. I'm single, have been for a while. I'm just getting disgusted with hearing my friends talk about their boyfriends and how often they cheat on them.... check out other people in front of them.... spend like $400 at a strip club..... have ';friendships'; with other girls that require them to spend alone time together.... stuff like that. and they just roll over and take it.





what do you think?For men AND women - a few questions about cheating?
I agree with what you say, but for men being trash, it takes a woman to make them trash. I'm single, don't run around, don't understand why women get beaten up by a guy and still stay with them. I guess I'm getting old, and it's a new generation thingFor men AND women - a few questions about cheating?
I have never cheated on my boyfriend or any in the past. I find cheating to be low and cowardly. The bigger person will just end it. I think it hurts more to be cheated on, then to be just dumped. Sure, in the end you are still hurt, but being dumped is easier to get over. I have been the dumper and the dumped so I can see it from both points of view. I watch myself and the guys I went out with move on. No problems.
I honestly have never cheated. I thought about it once with my ex, but still never did. I don't want my girlfriend to cheat on me, and i fully believe in karma, so i would be an idiot to cheat. Plus i love her, and that would just crush her.
1. I've never cheated on a boyfriend


2. I dont think that is justifiable


3. I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me. I cut him out of my life becuase I knew I deserved better


4. Yes, they will always be tempted.
I think people are not monogomous by nature. We can try as a society to make someone be only with one person but we weren't really designed for that. To answer your questions from a 32 yr old female's perspective:





1. I've cheated on everyone i've been with at some point


2. Even if i'm in love with the person, i'm still sexually curious about others


3. I've never been cheated on that i'm aware of.Although I surely have been at some point, i've never found it out. So I don't know how i'd feel.


4. People can stop cheating if they want to.





That's as frank as I can be. Sorry if it's not an attractive answer, but it's the truth.
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