Would you forgive your cheating husband, if yes, how to you cope with the past, in the present?

no. and i would make sure every girl he was with knew about what kinda man he was.Would you forgive your cheating husband, if yes, how to you cope with the past, in the present?
I wouldn't and I didn't forgive him. I divorced him.Would you forgive your cheating husband, if yes, how to you cope with the past, in the present?
You could stop worrying about it. Why is it such a big deal? It's just a big deal in America and only here for the last 50 years. Cheating has gone on forever and still goes on everywhere.
I forgave my cheating ex. I cope by being thankful he's out of my life and he can screw around all he wants.
Forgive him yes,stay with him no.You need to forgive ,so you can move on,and staying,he will cheat again.
I haven't forgiven my soon to be ex husband and it has been over 2 years. I think the old saying once a cheater always a cheater is probably true. It took mine 30 years for it to come out but it finally did, he had been having an affair for over a year when he finally confessed and moved in with girlfriend who has now kicked him out after she helped him spend what he had, and he got in bad health (had heart attack). Guess he now knows the grass is not greener on the other side. People tried to tell him about this woman, she was the company tramp, had already broken up several marriages before she got to ours. He thought he could change her, guess he found out different. I have a hard time feeling any sympathy for him, after the damage he has caused to my life and our son's life as well.
No I would not.


Life is too short and if he hasn't matured enough by now to know that that is unacceptable, then I don't want him, and I don't want to worry about him all the time when I have goals in life that I would prefer to focus on, goals that a good husband would help me achieve, not divert my attention from.
I might. If you had asked me 10 years ago, not a chance in hell. Ten years from now, I might give a different answer altogether.


The only way to cope with the past is to simply make the decision that it will not affect the present. Easier said than done, I know, but once you have made the decision, you have to force thoughts from the past out of your mind completely.
if you forgive,


you must forget,


carry on with life,


thinking and dwelling into the pass do both of you no good
Absolutely...NOT! I wouldn't be able to cope with the past. No way, no how. I would NEVER be able to trust him again, and if there is no trust in a marriage, there is no marriage. Kick 'em to the curb, and say ';see ya!';
I know of a man who cheats on his wife in the internet and to her is cheating even they didnt go to bed. But the wife found out earlier enuf before her husband and the slut made plans to meet in real. But is just as bad. But I guess is easier to forgive this than a husband who go to bed with another woman. I would definitely leave and made that as a ground for divorce. Sorry is hard but thats how it is. Why do you want to be with a person who does this to you. Yeah move on.
i would. we tried to go separate ways once and i felt like i was a zombie.. walking dead.. my heart was not the same without him.. so .. though he hasn't cheated yet that i know of.. i know that i would forgive him cuz i know how much it hurts to live without him.. i love him too much .. and i am a very independent person who never in a million years thought i could love this deeply.. the only way to cope with the past is to truly forgive.. to admit to yourself that you are human too and have fallen short of his expectations also.. if you want it to work you havto find a way to see the truth that we all have problems and are lucky to find someone who truly loves us and who we love. we all make mistakes just different ones.. this one is just really painful. i am sorry sweetie.. hope you can find a way Through.
It's up to you to forgive or not, but if you want it to actually work and you are able to forgive then you need to understand that forgiving means never bringing it up... whether your angry or not you cannot keep throwing it in his face. You literally have to let it go and move past it and focus on building a future from that point on. If you can't forgive and let go then there is really no point. Then you are only keeping him around to punish him and that's not fair to either of you.
I would forgive, but don't think I could ever forget. It hurts so deeply to be betrayed. I don't believe there is ever an excuse for adultry and would divorce him. Realize you deserve better and WILL find the right guy who will treat you with respect you deserve. You don't want to stay with someone you'll never trust again, it would be too painful, much more painful than walking away. I know because it has happened to me twice. Most of all, don't let him make you feel like you are why he did it or make you feel like you pushed him to it. Move on, Honey!!
your husband would have to show total remorse for his actions, God forgave us for our sins and adultery is one that is hard to forgive for, but honestly its one that you both will never forget, but only because its a lesson not to be repeated,forgiving someone for this act is not an easy path, and things will come up and haunt you, but with alot of prayer and dedication a relationship can and has survived,it will depend on, your communication,rebuilding trust, and always reminding yourself what you loved about each other in the first place... but first there has to be remorse for the actions
I am not sure if I would forgive my cheating husband or not. It would depend a lot on:





1. His attitude (does he try to justify his actions, shift the blame to me ';my fault';, etc.)


2. Was it a one time event, or continued over a long time?


3. Could I really look past it and not ';make him pay'; the rest of our married life?