How to cope with a cheating boyfriend.?

Hi guys i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now. recently he just turned 18 his attitude completly changed and he became different one night he just left work and went out and didnt tell me where he was. a few months later he told me he cheated on me with one of our old friends.... but this is where it gets complicated last saturday he said to me that it wasn't with our old friend it was with some one completly different i dont know who she is.... untill then i forgave him and forgot about it because i knew who she was knew what she was like... now its all changed its in my head 24/7 it will not leave me alone i cannot stop thinking about it i am in pain i love him soooooo much. i dont want to be told to leave him so dont tell me that i just want to know how to make myself feel better please help..... thanksHow to cope with a cheating boyfriend.?
have sex with him and make sure its goodHow to cope with a cheating boyfriend.?
i have been trough the same situation and i pretty sure that u should leave him nobody deserves a guy like that and try to move on with your life hang out with the gurls and even make a sleep over dont let him see that ur sad just make the best out of every day and wen he notices u are happy hes going to regret what he did to you and beg to get u back and remember GUYS WANT WHAT OTHER GUYS WANT make him jealous
Leave him alone. If you can't leave him alone, start having a few friends of your own. You will eventually meet someone to help you get over him. If you let him get away with cheating, he will always cheat on you.
if he lied about who the person was, what else has he been lying about? hes not faithful and hes not honest. both of which are necessary in a relationship. i think its either time for a break or a breakup.
Break up with him immediately.





I'm a guy, and I would dump a girl immediately if she cheated on me... so why shouldn't you do the same? That's just standard. That is elementary. You don't stick with a cheater, ever.
Put up with him?





If he cheated.


He dosn't like you.


He dosn't want you.


So get rid of him.





Second Chances Never Matter People never change!





You Deserve someone better?
break up with him
A liar and a cheater, now that's a quality man.....NOT!
You may be in love but someone who cheats on you DEFINITELY doesn't care about you OR respect you enough to stay faithful. What was he thinking when he was having sex with some other chick? Obviously that one time with someone else was worth more than his relationship with you. SERIOUSLY.


Who cares if you forgave him. He did a shitty thing that was Unforgivable and you can take it back and dump him when you come to terms with yourself that YOU deserve better.


I'm sorry you don't want to hear that you should leave him, but I'm not going to give you lies to tell yourself that ';he's still a great guy that loves you not matter what'; cuz he's a loser that doesn't know what love is and would cheat on you all over again if he knew you were spineless enough to take him back and forgive him.


You're better off without him.





And I don't care what you tell yourself, nobody deserves to be cheated on. Not even you.





Best of luck. I sincerely hope things work out for you.
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Hi, there.





I admit that I have cheated on some girls. Also, I have been cheated on. I can try to give you some perspective and some peace.





In order to gain closure for this specific problem and stop thinking about it, you need to start by figuring out what large issues are vexing you. This will get you in touch with your feelings/help you relate. Here are two examples:





1) He may have put your health at risk by cheating on you and not telling you who he cheated on you with, or by not being honest with you for an extended period of time.


2) He may have still had feelings for the other woman and not wanted you to damage their relationship. So, he would have been putting a different relationship in front of yours, and he may do so again.





Now, you have to find a way to resolve these issues or the emotions that come with them. There are the obvious subclasses of both issues: that you need validation for your hurt feelings and that you need the closure of understanding where he stands. With this comes questions like: ';Will he listen? Will he tolerate or even accept what you have to say? Does he really love you? Does he love the other woman? Etc.'; Then, there are the issues, themselves, and how you plan to react to them. Will you stop having sex with him for fear that he is putting you at continued risk? Will you find a more important relationship, as he may have? Will you find some way to keep watch? ...or just break up with him? Will you try to rekindle whatever passion you may or may not have had? Etc.





Basically, from what I have seen of guys that cheat, there are two types. One type cheats because he is not satisfied with his girlfriend. This guy deserves no sympathy. You would do well to take absolute control of the relationship by simply dropping him. The other type cheats because he has some other kind of conflict, but he truly feels that he made a mistake. It is truly a sad sight when this kind of guy's girlfriend leaves him. He needs to find help and take control of his life. Time apart may be to your advantage; however, given a few solid solutions to the issue, he really deserves another chance.





The best way to figure out which type of cheater your boyfriend is would be to address other people who are familiar with his attitude toward you when you are apart. In this case, it is better to confront friends you met through him than it is to confront friends he met through you. Without leading them or suggesting what they should say, just ask your boyfriend's friends what he says about you. Maybe they will say, ';He has a great passionate love for you,'; or maybe they will say, ';Well, you know... he likes you.'; If it's the latter, there isn't a lot of reason to have much hope. You might be able to investigate some of his interests and get more involved, but I have found it difficult to construct passion in a relationship: especially when the other party is not on board. You would be lying to yourselves about your love, basing your relationships on that lie, and throwing away any chances you two had at true romance.





If you want to feel better, you need to do something for yourself. A short-term fix like buying something shiny is nice, but it isn't as effective as a long-term fix. Maybe you could take some classes at the local community college? Join a biking club or a volunteer agency... whatever you find fun. If you want to simply feel better (as in not about yourself but feel more emotionally stable), you will have to resolve the issues or accept that you are hurt, that it will be painful, and let the physical side effects come and go with time. The feelings of pain, anger, and sadness should resurface from time to time, for a very long time--maybe forever. If your boyfriend cares about you and your relationship, he has to be prepared to tell you that those emotions toward this issue are valid, for at least that long!