How to cope living with cheating girlfriend?

I know my girlfriend been cheating on me. It gets so bad that she doesnt even care if i know. I left for several days to be with that guys then came back to me and i took her back. Even when i caught her in the act and it...i can't describe the feeling. I told myself i need to let her go but i can't, i keep letting her back in my life when she came back and said she's sorry so she can do it again a few weeks after. Even though we're back now it's still killing me because even though i forgave but i can't forget and it's killing me to see her with another guy to know she's out with another guy when she's not with me and how she lied and manipulated me. I can't sleep, i keep thinking about it, but yet i can't let her go. Please help and tell me what to do?How to cope living with cheating girlfriend?
You are living in a abusive relationship. This is a form of mental abuse. Listen to the song from Offspring called ';Self-Esteem';; this is you right now.





First, tell her to get out of your life. Even when she comes back, you need to ensure that she stays out.





Second, get out and live life, be it with friends or a new gf. The new gf might be a rebound relationship, but it will keep you from going beack to the bad one.





Third, refuse to hear anything about your old gf and do not say anything about her. This will help you get her out of your mind. Also it will show that you are the mature one.





Finally, if you fail to keep her out of your life, make sure that you remember why she is an ex and the pain and suffering that she has caused you. You never want to go back to that again.





Wish you good luck.How to cope living with cheating girlfriend?
And I quote...


I can't sleep, i keep thinking about it, but yet i can't let her go. Please help me and tell me what to do?





Those sentences lead to two different conclusions.


I can't let her go = miserable.


Tell me what to do = happy. You listen to the folks here who are trying to help you out. End it now while you can and boost that self confidence so you don't end up in the same situation again.
I know it's wrong to pick on the weak when they are down but here goes:





You have low self-esteem and you are obviously an idiot.





Fix yourself before attempting to get into another relationship. Nobody deserves to be treated the way you are. She obviously has no respect for you and treats you like the idiotic sap that you are.





Grow some kahones and kick the b*tch out the door.
I know you feel like you can't live without her, but you MUST let her go. You will look back on this later and be very glad you did. You can and will find someone else who truely loves you, and you alone.





I had this happen to me back in high school, and getting rid of her was the best decision I ever made.
I agree with the previous woman. Work on your self-esteem. Go to counseling. I know what it feels like. Trust me, you deserve better. No one deserves that.





You can probably find yourself another girlfriend too. Being single for a short period of time isn't so bad. Maybe you're not ready for a relationship.





Be honest with yourself. Why do you keep letting her back into your life? What is it about her? What is it about you?
y do u think u keep staying w/ her? even though she's seriously hurting u every time. she doesn't care about u at all. otherwise she wouldn't be cheating on u. she says she's sorry but she's really not because she keeps repeating the same cycle every time. if u stay w/ her u'll just continue to be unhappy and getting hurt every time. is all that really worth it?
The best thing for you to do is leave and move on with your life. If you don't trust her, then being in a relationship is completely pointless because you can't have a relationship without trust. Believe me man, you're always going to be wondering what she's doing when you're not with her. I've been in a relationship where I was cheated on, and I was stupid and forgave her. Whenever she was not with me, I was always paranoid. I needed to know where she was going, who she was with etc etc. Well, she ended up cheating on me again so I broke it off and moved on with my life. I think you should do the same, it's not the easiest thing to do, but it's the best thing to do.