Monday, August 9, 2010

How do you girls cope with being cheated on?

What do you do to help you get over being screwed over?





Something that DOESNT involve cheating back. Im kinda married lol





How do you girls cope with being cheated on?
Umm....divorce? Kicking him out of the house?





Personally, if my husband cheated on me, my pride/ego would be forever wounded. I certainly wouldn't be able to go back to being ';normal'; with my husband after my trust was shatteredHow do you girls cope with being cheated on?
I suggest couple's councelling or maybe starting 'anew' when you sit down with him and make a concious decision to forget things. I know it sounds hard, but this is like a break up. To patch things up you need to find strength to move on. I have a Ross/Rachel situation with my bf when we dated 6 years ago then a lot of **** went down and now we are dating again (much more serious this time). But in order to arrive at this place and to avoid mistakes (which we now do not do and we don't even really fight as we used to) we spent a weekend away from everyone just discussing what we want/expect from each other and how to cope with bad memories (he forgets easier, I just recently forgave him completely and it took a while - he was patient). Takes a lot of care and 'togetherness' to get things rolling again
sometimes you have to think about your future.. like maybe he did it accidentally, maybe he was drunk and it just happened, or he thought it was a one time think if you can get over it than leave it and talk to him, but if you cant then talk to him and maybe get a divorce, because i know some girls cannot live with someone who cheated on them!
if he cheated, he obviously doesnt care and give as much respect to you as you do to him. Talk to him about it, give it time but if you cant live with it, consider seperation.
I'm not a girl, but I already answered this.





Divorce.
umm.. well. as guy i would say once cheater always a cheater.


srry say it divorce.

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