Once a cheater always a cheater. Instead of working things out with you, he went to another girl. Then when he thinks he'll lose you he decides the arguing isn't so bad and he loves you. Girl he blamed his cheating ON you. Hello?
Just leave now before he completely breaks your heart and destroys your self esteem.How do you cope with your boyfriend of 5 years cheating on you with another gir?
Don't even try to make it work. He seen that you was about to get rid of him and NOW he loves you. But before that he defended the girl and complained you always argue with him Pleeeeeze.
It's a likely chance that he will cheat on you again if you take him back in. If he sees that you will still stick around even though cheated, he will keep doing it because you let him get away with it. I know it's going to take a while to get over him, but you'll be glad you did.
The way I would cope would be to get out of the relationship and move on to someone that respects me. I couldn't be with someone that I could not trust, and cheating or talking to other women behind my back would definitely violate my trust...
When the trust is gone, so is the relationship. He crossed the line and 5 years is a long time. It may seem impossible or really hard, but you may need to cut the ties with him.
Sorry...
Why cope? Dump him immediately.
By keeping him and trying to patch things up, you are silently consenting to his philandering. If that's acceptable to you, you don't need any answers from us.
Leave him. It's hard but if you stay, it'll only be harder. You'll always wonder and it'll make you angry and insecure.
Very simple. LEAVE HIM! He obviously is only holding on to you in case it doesn't work with her. He got desperate when you threatened to leave. He will always think he can cheat on you.
ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT. I'D LEAVE..I CAN'T COPE
I'd wait a while and give him a second chance so he'll appreciate it more and not do that again.
U EITHER HAVE TO BELIEVE WAT HE SAYS N WORK IT OUT OR JUS LEAVE HIM N FIND SOMEBODY THAT EONT DO THAT TO U
I would say dump him: he's not worth your time
Make him realise what he's been missing out on
And for what it's worth, i'm sorry about what he did
He seems like a jerk
take a break from him...
bounce him out of the picture and your life
Sounds like this guy want to ';have his Kate and Edith too!';
A man that will lie to you about cheating will also lie about changing, how much he loves you, or whatever it takes to keep you where he wants you.
Witness, you said he: 1- lied to keep his sorry buttocks out of trouble and keep doing what he wanted. 2- defended her and tried to blame it on you. 3- try to play on your feelings of love for him to keep you where he wants.
Take the ';Wipe your feet'; sign off your back and dump this guy. It sounds like you need to spend some time learning to love yourself and believing that inappropriate behavior should not be overlooked.
First Verify that it is actual cheating and not phone flirting. Phone flirting and cybersex and stuff like that you can get past it. Real cheating, you are going to need some time.
Now if you are in the mood for vengance I have a sugestion, seduce his best friend. Always hits hard. He cheated you have permission. If you won't touch his BFF with a ten-foot pole and a biohazard suit, then have sex with his dad. Works better than the best friend.
Now if you want to be adult about this, don't try to get back with him right away and act like nothing has happen, you'll never trust him and feel like you are always wondering where he is and you'll grow to resent him. He'll resent you because you will never fully trust him again. Do break up and take some time off. Let him earn back your trust. When you feel that he has then slowly do the relationship thing again.
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