I was cheated on and it was going on right under my nose. I was in denial but now...ugh...
It hurts badly. How do you make the pain go away?How do you cope with a breakup when that person cheated on you? Tips to make that ';death'; feeling go away?
Time...mainly just time. You can stay busy, or you can spend a lot of time thinking, but time and distance from your ex is all that will really help. It does hurt, badly, and the humiliation is the hardest part to bear. Stay away from your ex and the person he was cheating on you with, and give yourself some time.
Don't do the stereotypical thing and eat tons of ice cream, stop taking care of your appearance, start wearing sweats all day long, or otherwise let yourself go. Do something positive for yourself - start doing yoga, get more exercise, join a club, or take a night class, for example, or find something else that raises your self-esteem and has a positive physical, mental, and emotional effect. It will help you to realize that you're better off now than when you were in your relationship.How do you cope with a breakup when that person cheated on you? Tips to make that ';death'; feeling go away?
I'm going through this right now too, though I've been through it before. Except for this time it was with my husband and best friend and I have a little girl with him. My advice from someone with experience is that time will heal and know that it will quit hurting and you'll get over this loser. And when you do you'll be so glad you got away when you did. He's probaly going to try and come crawling back to and whether you let him come back or not is totally up to you. Also it wasn't your fault, there's nothing wrong with you, and that other person is definately not better than you. I'm sorry you're hurting and hope you heal soon.
Do stuff with friends, have fun, smile, and keep yourself busy. And remember that the person that cheated on you is honestly scum and you can do SO much better than someone who would hurt you in that way. Keep in mind that eventually you WILL move on from this and everything will be okay again. Try not to sit around and think about what has happened, because it will bring the ';death'; feeling back. Hope you feel better, hun :)
Start having a lot of one night stands. Once you start getting some stray kitty on the side on a regular basis the pain goes away. It's also very helpful if you can start nailing a bunch of her friends. This might make her jealous and she'll want you back. Then you can just use her for a piece of *** and get even.
Time is the healer of all broken hearts. It wont go away immediately but give it time and day by day it will fade away until it is nothing but a memory in the back of your mind. Hang out with friends and go have some fun to take your mind off of it.
distracting yourself with exercise, hobbies, hanging out with friends, just try to keep busy to create distance, in time, from the situation... seriously, only time will heal this hurt, but i promise you it will go away
TIME heals all wounds. Theres nothing else to say.
spend some time with friends..get lost in books..focus on yourself. theres a lot of things you can do to pre occupy yourself.
you will get through it. be strong.
It's gonna take time i'm going through the same thing look at the bright side atleast u don't have babies by this fool I do so in my case it's even harder to get over him when he has to be around
Occupy yourself with friends, go take some fun classes... JUST KEEP YOURSELF BUSY!
get a new person. cut the old one loose from your thoughts.
It's all a matter of time. Just let time pass on and avoid them if you can.
Get someone new =)
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