How Do i Cope? My Girlfriend Cheated on me When she was on Holidays.?

I Truly love her, I have been dating her for 2 years, and within the time i have never for once cheated on her because i am a very very jealous Guy. She was on holidays for only two weeks. I called her this day and we were having serious arguments over the phone, She has never had a problem answering question. When i asked her did she sleep with someone else, she was mute and i knew she did but wanted to hear her say it. She then said yes she did. I have forgiven her, but i can't stand it. I look at her and then the thought just comes into my head. So some guy has seen her naked!!! My heart is bitter and for some reasons way beyond my control i can't seem to let go of her. How do i cope in a situation like this. Help!!!!!! and then my friend said to me do you love her enough to be jealousHow Do i Cope? My Girlfriend Cheated on me When she was on Holidays.?
Hello friend,


I can understand you state of mind. You cant help being possessive about her, because 2 years of relationship really means a lot. I know it would be really difficult for you to face her or even look at her in the loving way that you generally day, because every time you look at her, you may be reminded of her infidelity. I know its really hard to forgive her, but once you've forgiven her (as you say you've), try to get over it. You should think about your girlfriend. When you say you cant help feeling the way you do, think about what she may be feeling when she's with you. She'd be feeling guilty as well to have broken your trust. I suppose, both of you should have a talk, tell her how that act of hers has hurt you, and that you want her to be with you, because you love her the most, and you're ready to forget that issue and start afresh with her. Take care of her feelings as well. And don't cheat on her. Show her how much you love her, and she'll realize her mistake.


Good luck.How Do i Cope? My Girlfriend Cheated on me When she was on Holidays.?
';i am a very very jealous Guy';


She is better off without you, and she is certainly not as committed to you, as you are to her.


You have to respect her, controlling someone is not a healthy relationship
Try and truly forgive her in your heart and if you can't do that then you have to move on because you don't trust her right now and if there's no trust then you guys have nothing
My girlfriend cheated on me too...This is what i did:
I would reduce her to friend status and not be shy about having interests in other girls. She would no longer be my exclusive.





Best Wishes





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i feelu **** dat ***** move on u can find sum1 else. if you cannot find it n ur heart to move past this than its not worth all of the turmoil and tention that willb between u guys..im sorry bro
I'd say move on because it will eat at you once a trust is broken it's almost impossible to rebuild. And the jealousy will drive you mad. jmho
then leave her. but DO NOT do the same thing to other girls, nobody does it better than KARMA. there are many fishes in the sea, find a new girl
no jealousy will only make things worse.remove it.
wait your dating her? so your not going out with her?
cheat on her!
I wish I knew your age. Okay, main thing here seems to be that she did sleep with someone else.The trust is gone. I cannot condone that for any reason. You are understandably hurt and still love her because you did not do anything wrong. But, she did. You may forgive her, but you do not have to disrespect yourself and take her back. Of course that is your decision entirely. Separately, I think you need to work on your jealousy. This is not a good character trait in a man. A woman can have male friends who are just that, friends just as you can have female friends. The emphasis is on friends. Self confidence, self respect, and pride in yourself can help you deal with the jealousy issue. If you are young, you will meet many women before you meet THE one. In this day and time, both you and she may have had previous partners and any previous partners you or she had in the past are just that--past. Yesterday is gone, live for today and the future of your tomorrow.
Most people will tell you to leave her


but if she really is the one... then think about things like


what did you do to make her act this way ?


or was it the cause of her own issues ?


could you truly ever forgive her ?


but personally you need to have self respect here


and tell her to get her fat A*s out the front door


because she betrayed you and the trust is gone.


what more do you have left in this relationship ?


because its better that it ends now before


you hurt anymore.