I saw my girlfriend talking to a male store clerk. How can I cope with the betrayal and cheating?

Yesterday, my girlfriend and I were at the mall. She wanted to buy some clothes from this one store, so I just sat on the bench. She was taking longer than I would've thought, and when I looked, I saw her talking to the male store clerk for about one minute before leaving. I know I can't read lips, but I'm pretty sure he was giving out a phone number. How can I cope with the betrayal of my girlfriend? How can I cope with myself knowing that I've been cheated on?I saw my girlfriend talking to a male store clerk. How can I cope with the betrayal and cheating?
You sound too paranoid. You should ask her instead of assuming. Maybe they knew each other from high school or something. Talking with another guy isn't cheating or betraying...I saw my girlfriend talking to a male store clerk. How can I cope with the betrayal and cheating?
Just because someone passes on a phone number doesn't mean a darn thing. I've had men pass me their phone numbers and tell me to call them. I say thanks and throw the number out when I get home.
Gee, how about asking her? Sheesh....
LMAO If her dress size is as long as a phone number, you've got yourself a problem dude.
Number One: Never assume anything. You say you can't read lips then don't assume a telephone number was passed out. Relationships are built on trust and it appears that you don't have much trust.


Communication is vital and if you aren't able to sit down and express your feelings in a non threatening, non critical way then the problem could be you. Are you being honest with each other? Have you set parameters for communicating with others both male and female? Consider what unwarranted jealousy can do to a relationship. Immature relationships often break up because each person is unwilling to share feelings, fears, desires, and numerous other ideas with each other. Just being together or just having sex won't cut it. That is not what a real mature relationship is all about. I know I've just touched the surface but it's important that you both face up to the issue or your relationship is doomed from the start!
You have serious issues.
Grow up you over bearing freak. Did you see her making out with him or having sex? ';NO'; I didn't think so!!! take a chill pill, and talk to her about it. In truth if I was her I would dump your lame as*!!!!
talking to a cashier for one minute, does not mean someone is cheating, cashiers are suppose to talk with the customer, and most likely he was giving her the change back not his number. relax guy, your taking life tooo fast, slow down, don't jump to conclusions if you don't know the whole story, i guarantee it will ruin your relationship.
Cope? With what? The greatest obstacle in your life right now is probably your own jealous idiocy.
I think she is the worse type of girlfriend. Right in front of you are you going to take that?? You need to let her go and find someone that won't do that sort of thing!!


Whew! hope that convinces him to let her go so she can find someone not so paranoid %26amp; controling. yikes if she only knew....
I think your girlfriend should dump you. You sound like the controlling kind of guy who feels she's cheating even when she isn't. If you can't trust her, then don't date her. I think you'll be alone a long time, though, because WHO CARES if she talks to a store clerk for a few minutes and makes polite conversation. That's not cheating. You are being ridiculous.
You're not old enough to have a girlfriend.
Did you ask her? My god she was only talking. You are being obsessive. She will leave you for behaving that way. Sorry but its true.
Are you serious?





Grow up and stop being obsessive. You said she was talking. that is not cheating.
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like think of all the times you have hell in your life and she is acting like nothing happing. Cuz she not happy with god alone but something else.
a little paranoid???
Are you SURE she was getting his phone number?? If not 100% sure, you should as you could be wrong.





Even if she did get his phone number, that does not mean that she is cheating on you. Cheating requires dating, kissing, intimacy and/or intercourse. She did none of the above by getting a phone number.





I personally think you are putting the horse before the cart and are jumping to conclusions. You need to find out exactly what happened before doing anything else.
Sorry, but you don't know that you have been cheated on. He may have given her his phone number but that does not mean she will call it. You need to trust her. If you don't trust her then you should re evaluate your relationship. Good relationships are build on trust and friendship. Not jealousy and anger.
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You can't. Eat a shotgun and get it over with...
why don't you ask her instead of assuming things. Maybe he was giving her the number to another store. Maybe he was writing down the name or number of something she liked. why would you act like such a paranoid person when it is just as easy to ask her!