How do you cope when your husband cheats and has a child?

Yeasterday I found out my husband of 10 years has a one year old son with the woman he was cheating with.





2 years ago he met a slut in Mexico on vaction. He cheated on me there. he then brought her to our state 4 months latter and got her pregnant.





The child is 1 year old and I JUST found out. How to I not kill myself over this???How do you cope when your husband cheats and has a child?
Get rid of the bastard of a husband. You can do so much better than that! Get some counseling, too. He cheated so he should be the one to leave. When he's out, change the locks, call the police and get a restraining order and leave his crap out on the front lawn.How do you cope when your husband cheats and has a child?
Don't kill yourself---remember, living well is the best revenge. Get some therapy, and get a LAWYER! The scum isn't worth your life. It's hard to start over, but many of us have so hang in there.





Keep us posted and let the community know how you're doing. Good luck!
Why would you have to cope with something like that?? I wouldn't, I would throw him out faster than I could say bye bye. Don't take this experience too personally, easier said than done I am sure. He is a jerk, not faithful, a lyer and a cheat....I am positive that you have some good memories from being with him....take what you learned and find another life for yourself. I love my husband with all of my heart, however if I were to ever find out he had done something like this to us, I would get him out of my life so fast his head would spin. I don't need this kind of aggravation, (ie Pain) in my life, because I also love myself....hopefully you do too. Ditch this boy and find yourself a man who knows how to love you and will bring nothing but happiness into your life. They are out there.
Kill yourself???? Why would you kill yourself?? He is the one that cheated. Not you or even her. It was all him!!
Why kill yourself for the stupid things that your husband has done? If you can't stay with your husband because of his cheating ways...and because there is an innocent child involved...leave him. You deserve better and killing yourself isn't the answer.
Instead of killing yourself, love your self. Don't listen to any of his crap if he is trying to get you back. This was not a mistake, like one night he had bad judgement this is ongoing and intent.. He brought her to your state... Love your self Leave him and find something better. Love yourself enough to let go and LIVE your life.
why would u want to kill yourself over his wrongs? it is a hurt for u that will not go away unless your husband works on gaining your trust, but the child will be in his life forever u know that don't u? personally i could not cope with this, i would have to leave the marriage because he will have this woman and her child in his life forever and forever. why stay with a cheater? it will only bring u more grief as the years pass.
First of all your husband cheated on you about 2years ago and he cheated on you there and bought this woman here and she got pregnant four months later and had a child by him


This child is one years old how do not kill yourself for what he is not worth it , I dont know what you want to do are you still in love with him and want t be with him. Either you deal with it or leave that is your choice.





best of luckl
Kill Your self?





No Kill Him!!





Thats really ****** up after all those yrs of marrage he neva really loved you then.





MOVE ON!!!





I know it's hard and damn near impossible but staying or thinking about it is a waiste of life. Don't linger over this you will waiste the rest of your life trying to figure out why this happend while the perfect guy is passing you by.


Also leave his *** take him to court and take him for all he's worth!! Cheating is a crime and the fact that he has a kid will make him pay more.





Make him hurt and end up BROKE!! It might no be even but it's damn near close enough.
LOL funny how you called her a **** had to stop myself from laughing in the library. for your sake tell him if he cheats again then a divorce would be final, personally if i found he cheated on me and him KNOWING I was his wife and he didnt care, i would have hit the road the moment i found out. of courseif he is able to cheat on you how do you know he hasnt done more than times? i honestly dont know how a person CAN cope with a cheating spouse
My husband just cheated on me to....hang in there.








And screw him....get a paternity test for the kid...if it's his..then you have proof that he cheated and you should take him to the cleaners. I don't know how to get over the pain....let me know if you find out.





Good luck lady.
dont give him the satisfaction sweetheart off killing yourself, the best thing you can do is get your head round all this,the way he has treated you and do the right thing and get rid,,,he doesnt deserve you,move on and get a new life,you have given him 10 years off your life,go and get another 10 free from this horrible man,,,,,be strong honsss you will get through it,,good luck to you xxx